We have so much trouble in our personal lives that we are slowly becoming indifferent to the miseries inflicted on others. At best we take part in some candle light protests or peace marches. Some would say this is how we can do our bit for the society; I would dare to say people do it because this is the “in thing” brought about by depictions in Bollywood movies (we love our movies and love aping the stars!). Nowadays, such “events” are promoted by competing news channels – a matter of TRP’s for them??
I, myself did not know that an “Aman ki Asha” page existed in Facebook. Call it my lack of interest, but, I did not find anyone from my 300 odds friends (from various social networking sites) in that group either. When it comes to feelings for our country, I wonder if we are just satisfied with showing our patriotism only when it comes to cricket – one victory for India, in any form of cricket and we feel so proud of being an Indian. If the opposition is the Pakistan team, then the feeling is almost like winning a war. I won’t be wrong to say the same feeling exists amongst people in Pakistan too. The other day, while watching a movie, we were asked to stand up for the National Anthem and I could hear a grunt of dissatisfaction from some of the viewers around me…they were unhappy as they had to find a place to keep their popcorns and beverages for the 52 seconds that Jana Gana Mana would be played – is this how much we care for our nation? With this attitude we can never give “peace” a chance with anybody, forget Pakistan.
Any discussion on India and our immediate Western neighbor, only invites caustic reactions thanks to the 62 year old divide created by political diatribe across the borders. So, much so, that the thought of Sania Mirza representing Pakistan in tennis, after marriage to Shoaib Malik brings about a revolt amongst us. Very much justified, I would say, we all adore Sania - for her skills on the court and off it! But, would it have evoked similar outbursts if she would have married someone from the US or UK and represented their nation in tennis – I think we would have secretly felt proud of her.
Is it right to leave the success or failure of the Peace initiatives being taken between India and Pakistan; to the politicians whom we have elected (how many of us cast our votes in the last elections?) or do we have a role to play as well…..but the big question is - do we really care??
~ Sid ~